SHOCKING stuff about last visit

Well, tonight we went to visit Grandma D and Aunt G. The visit went smooth and it was nice to get to know them better. Grandma did say she had no intentions of asking for custody as long as C was happy here. Yippeeee!!! That was great to hear.

The part that was shocking was on the drive home, C told me stuff she has found out that D, her brother, has been doing. Not good stuff and she doesn't want to tell her aunt or Ms. B because she will be a snitch. Nothing serious, so I told her that it was fine and we talked about the kinds fo things that she would need to share with an adult to make sure he was always safe. Better safe and mad at her than unsafe and happy with her.... anyway, in talking about it, she told me more about what happened last visit.

I guess that last visit aunt told Ms. B that the other psych said that people who do drugs are bipolar and that A, the sister, is probably bipolar. That bio mom is likely bipolar and that that is why the bad choices are being made. All this being said in front of all the kids... and C says that is just mean. That this other person doesn't even know her mom ( the aunt has had it in her head that the whole family is bipolar and has been telling the kids this for years and C HATES IT!) Then she says that this person (she is calling her a case manager and I keep telling her it is NOT a case manager so she never thinks that B from CPS would do these things) was tapping A, the sister's shoulder to annoy her while asking "does this annoy you?" A said no and it continued. C said that this "case worker" is so mean. I asked her what the point of that was and she said that the new "case worker" wanted to show her how annoying she was to the aunt. Again, mean was the word that C used over and over.... SO... without ever seeing this new pyschologist, C already knows more than she wants and so do I. This does not seem like professional conduct what so ever and I can see why aunt likes her so much. I am super concerned about putting C into this same doctor. How do you feel about it, team??

I got a picture of C when she was 2 or 3. That is really neat. She is with her bio mom who obviously is using at the time. Neat to have it though and we are excited to put it in her life book.